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    Jerry's Gone

    Jerry's dead
    An era has ended

    And here we are...still.

    All these years,
    The Dead concerts have been spirit

    Made manifest,

    Deep connections     into...
    Living     Vibrant     Love
    Now The high priest     has     split.
    The Tao Te Ching speaks of the best leader as one who leaves
    The people thinking they did it all themselves.
    Jerry was that kind of a leader.

    He turned the power back to the people.

    He, and the band...they have never really bought into
    ****SUPERSTARDOM**** They have seen themselves     more     as     catalysts In the magical mix of the moment That allowed each person at the gathering to feel safe enough to
    Become self-luminous.

    So now Jerry has dropped his body...
    And here we are... still.
    Through him and his mythic playmates came the sound that
    Connected us to our deeper selves...
    This was our spiritual practice... our doorway...
    Genuinely ours... and it worked...
    Now Jerry isn't
    And we are...still.

    So...     has all that free     form     ecstasy

    That we garnered from an otherwise shadow world

    Transformed us?          Or made us more free?
    Or    Has it just left us a group of
              Sad Grateful Dead addicts

    In withdrawal?

    For sure we will grieve the monumental loss of our friend...Jerry

    For a long...long...long...time.

    Most likely we will go through some powerful depression
    And despair...
    We may even court cynicism...
    After all...it's not easy to lose your connection.
    But Jerry's legacy to us is more profound than all of that.
    He is in us...
    Just as we have been in him.
    We have all been not a tribe... or a family,
    But a bubble of awareness
    Riding upon the ocean of sound
    That is in and beyond the sounds we ear hear.
    Now it's up to us to co-create other safe spaces
    Where we can listen to hear what Jerry heard

    And to allow our love-light to Shine.

    Jerry is gone in one form, But...like the magician that he is,
    He has explosively been transformed into    A million Jerrys...    One...improvising in each of our hearts. Jerry...We express our gratefulness...

    By becoming the memory of you.

    -Ram Dass

    This passage is an excerpt from GARCIA - A Grateful Celebration, originally published in 1995 by Dupree's Diamond News. To learn more about Dupree's Diamond News or how to obtain a copy of GARCIA - A Grateful Celebration, click here.

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  • Hal R
    11 years 8 months ago
    Nice one
    Thank you Ram Dass for reminding me that the Grateful Dead experience is a spiritual one. Zig Zag Zen.
  • zepthompson
    11 years 8 months ago
    smile smile smile // now he's gone
    Jerome John Garcia Born August 1, 1942 in San Francisco, CA Died August 9, 1995 in San Francisco, CA
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    halloweendeadhead
    11 years 8 months ago
    Missing our Jerry
    I'm am calmed by the so many beautiful tributes coming in from our entourage. Yet it's still so hard, so very hard, for so many of us. I'm always trying to give good consideration to the very earnest, and sometimes humorous sugestions coming my way from concerned friends and family with possibilities of ways with which I could best cope. My 86 year old mother reminds me that when first meeting Jerry, it was on August 15, 1979, and couldn't I dwell on that August day, instead? (She didn't mean it to be funny.) I wonder if there would be any way that we could have 8/9 support groups, one in every state, even if just for an hour, even just for a listening music session. We could even say nothing, just shake hands, have a seat, listen, - then, just shake hands again and say some goodbyes to each other. It might be refreshing just to put a human face on the grief and provide some relief to the still open wound.
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Jerry's dead

An era has ended

And here we are...still.

All these years,
The Dead concerts have been spirit

Made manifest,

Deep connections     into...

Living     Vibrant     Love

Now
The high priest     has     split.

The Tao Te Ching speaks of the best leader as one who leaves
The people thinking they did it all themselves.
Jerry was that kind of a leader.

He turned the power back to the people.

He, and the band...they have never really bought into
****SUPERSTARDOM****
They have seen themselves     more     as     catalysts
In the magical mix of the moment
That allowed each person at the gathering to feel safe enough to
Become self-luminous.

So now Jerry has dropped his body...
And here we are... still.
Through him and his mythic playmates came the sound that
Connected us to our deeper selves...
This was our spiritual practice... our doorway...
Genuinely ours... and it worked...
Now Jerry isn't
And we are...still.

So...     has all that free     form     ecstasy

That we garnered from an otherwise shadow world

Transformed us?          Or made us more free?
Or
   Has it just left us a group of
          Sad Grateful Dead addicts

In withdrawal?

For sure we will grieve the monumental loss of our friend...Jerry

For a long...long...long...time.

Most likely we will go through some powerful depression
And despair...
We may even court cynicism...
After all...it's not easy to lose your connection.
But Jerry's legacy to us is more profound than all of that.
He is in us...
Just as we have been in him.
We have all been not a tribe... or a family,
But a bubble of awareness
Riding upon the ocean of sound
That is in and beyond the sounds we ear hear.

Now it's up to us to co-create other safe spaces
Where we can listen to hear what Jerry heard

And to allow our love-light to Shine.

Jerry is gone in one form,
But...like the magician that he is,
He has explosively been transformed into
   A million Jerrys...
   One...improvising in each of our hearts.
Jerry...We express our gratefulness...

By becoming the memory of you.

-Ram Dass

This passage is an excerpt from GARCIA - A Grateful Celebration, originally published in 1995 by Dupree's Diamond News. To learn more about Dupree's Diamond News or how to obtain a copy of GARCIA - A Grateful Celebration, click here.

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Jerry's dead
An era has ended

And here we are...still.

All these years,
The Dead concerts have been spirit

Made manifest,

Deep connections     into...
Living     Vibrant     Love Now

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Although our separation is an illusion, it strikes at my heart and forms my world. Miss you Jerry
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I'm am calmed by the so many beautiful tributes coming in from our entourage. Yet it's still so hard, so very hard, for so many of us. I'm always trying to give good consideration to the very earnest, and sometimes humorous sugestions coming my way from concerned friends and family with possibilities of ways with which I could best cope. My 86 year old mother reminds me that when first meeting Jerry, it was on August 15, 1979, and couldn't I dwell on that August day, instead? (She didn't mean it to be funny.) I wonder if there would be any way that we could have 8/9 support groups, one in every state, even if just for an hour, even just for a listening music session. We could even say nothing, just shake hands, have a seat, listen, - then, just shake hands again and say some goodbyes to each other. It might be refreshing just to put a human face on the grief and provide some relief to the still open wound.
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Thank you Ram Dass for reminding me that the Grateful Dead experience is a spiritual one. Zig Zag Zen.