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  • darkstar1
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    Hey Eugene, OR. Looking 4 lost family members...
    Hey Eugene! anyone know the whereabouts of Shannon Fillhart , Tevy , Matt , jeff , little jack K. please give them my E-mail and tell them Billy W. says Hi. Miss them much. Darkstar1@mchsi.com or call 661-808-4485
  • andreaamericangirl
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    does anyone remember me?
    im looking for anyone who has over the years and years been looking for me. i miss every one from milwaukee and madison and chicago who took me on that first trip in '86 plus crew from pittsburgh and other various and kooky places. also does anyone read the rideshare board???!!! i posted a msg looking for riders from bob tour newark- boca and i will pick u up anywhere along the route and also collect u at the nyc phil-a-thon and i have not got a single msg back- what is going on out there- isnt anyone going on tour anymore except people who have a ride? i mean i got a really comfy mini van w/ a futon in back and lots of kind vibes, whats up witchall??? ok- poz vibes, call me anyone who wants to 201-406-0810 and above all, LOVE ONE ANOTHER !!! b good family
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    Help me find my son, Jackie Elders
    I believe he is in trouble, I think he may be trying to commit suicide. Last I know he was in PA. Please if anyone has any info please email me at ceruzzi@sbcglobal.net.Thanks Theresa
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    Help identify Jason Doe please!!!
    somebody out there MUST know who he was! ♥
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    how awesome would it be if a deadhead did this?!
    brand new, FUN weight loss show! DANCE YOUR ASS OFF! Are you overweight but light on your feet? Has every diet you've tried, failed? Is every weight-loss program just too boring for you to stick to? Drop the Ho-Ho's and do the hustle, it's time to DANCE YOUR ASS OFF! We are offering the chance of a lifetime to 10 men and women to waltz their way into a healthier lifestyle. With the help of our expert nutritionists and top-notch professional dance partners, you will become the ultimate dancing-machine! Break the routine and learn OURS! You too can dance like the stars, so put down that milkshake and shake what your momma gave you! The Oxygen Network is currently seeking men and women who are at least the age of 21 and appear younger than 40 who want to accept the challenge in this dance competition series where your loss is the biggest gain. Shake and rattle your rolls, it's time to boogie! Are you ready to Dance Your Ass Off? To apply, visit: www.DanceOffCasting.com
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    Oakland 93, I GAVE you a backstage pass during the show
    I'm looking for that guy I met at the Chinese New Year's shows in Oakland, '93. My first show, and this guy showed me the ropes, introduced me to the love of the scene and I was amazed, overwhelmed, lost, and tripping hard all at the same time. Can't remember his name, but I can quote him. It was set break. and I asked if that was it....did I miss a lot? He says "Is it over? You thought that was the end of the show? Hell no, it ain't over yet, that was just the first set! Stick around brother." I gave him a backstage pass I had acquired cuz I was so happy just to be where I was at. Skipped the chance to meet Jerry so an old fan that was just so kind to me could realize a dream. What a way to meet the Grateful Dead, huh!?!? I'm also looking for Almish Nelterson, or a copy of his book, "WOW". It should be bright orange, with big letters say WoW. This book was being distributed at the Shoreline shows in '94. I also want to say hi to Teach, Shaggy from Oklahoma, everyone in Vegas, Tulsa, Reno, Montreal, and Susanville that still search for the sound. @DarkStarGazer@ wishes all well and good.
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    loren smith and jeffery ulrich.... searching for you
    am searching for two friends who are deadheads and have been missing from me since 1991. i met them both in columbus ohio. if anyone knows either of these guys, please let me know. please. they were both important in m y life and i have lost touch so very long ago. loren with his thick red dreads and jeffery looking just like a smaller jerry. i miss them both. also looking for a missing friend from highschool who went into the airforce in 1985. john d. archer....am fearing his demise and cannot find any proof one way or the other.
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    Sunny or Sunshine maybe Smiley?
    Anyone know a Sunny or Sunshine on tour for many years? I met her in Landover 90 or around there. (I've been to every Landover show since 86 so they get melted together sometimes! lol) Anyway, she was the kindest. Kinda heavy set with a HUGE smile all the time. She gave me her long sleeve dye cause it was cold that night and we hung the whole night in the lot. Had a great time. If this rings a bell and you remember this night, give me a holla! I miss your kindness, it touched me that night, your spirit was wonderful!
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    state college show
    jake and steph also wanted to send a shout to the guys from jersey who we hung with at the econo lodge. if anyone knows an old dead head by the name of dr. bob who was at colorado school of mines in 1979 tell him dr jake says what up!
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    state college show oct 13 hula hoopers
    looking for any of the fine follks we met at state college. its jake and steph, the ones with the hula hoops and juggling balls and poi, and all kinds of fun stuff. kirstin or jess (mother and daughter),jacob the drum player and his buddy ryan,andrew and lauren, the people with the canoe from connecticut, and anyone who hooped with us. leave a note and we'll try to get back to you soon!!
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I met a wonderful girl from Idaho Springs (by way of Utah) that helped me out greatly on Friday. I had to go back to my life and we did not exchange numbers but i wanna tell her thank you. I would have liked us to stay in touch. Farewell goddess hopefully i see you spinning around again soon.
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Hi There, I just moved to Lewes De. and looking for friends. If youlive here give me a hey so we can meet ; ')
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I live in Lewes,where did you move from?Lewes is a cool little town hope your enjoying it.
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Looking for Deadheads in the Wichita area. I live in the little town of Halstead. If ur out there pls respond.
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I m hoping one of you out theremight be able to help me. I followed the dead full time from 89-94 and met, fell in love with Otter/Derek. We got married at mile high stadium and tyler gave me away and wrecking crew gave a big party after in a sweet room. Roach motel folks were there too! Turtle is Otter/Dereks brother. Sadly...i was around when things got dark and people got strung out on bad things. i wont go into detail on a public forum lol. Lets say nothing good can come out of the Chelsea hotel in those days. Otter and I grew apart and I went to college and grew much older...never forgetting him or my the life i lived. I would so dearly love to reconnect with anyone from back in the day. Especially somoene who could tell me anything about Otter/derek or turtle (he would def know what happened to him). Ill list the folks we knew back then maybe it will ring a bell for someone.Otter, Turtle, Fast Eddie, Gracie, Hawaian Ed, ira, Fast Eddie, Crispy, mayla, Tyler, Rover from the haight id so love to hear from you, roach, TIGGER...you and i traveled together when we first started out!!!, morgan,poet, spacecat i love you, jim, michelle from san diego, spree, diamond fire......i hope this is enough.
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Hey Now,I toured in the mid-late 80's although I don't directly recall otter/derek,it does ring a bell.I remember rack and fast ed[who did'nt know them],Hawaiian ed,and definatly Ira[the indian],I lived mostly in santa cruz,my name is Lenny. Fast ed and Rack did have a myspace site, I don't recall hte address,perhaps you can try that angle.I wishI could be more help,it's great to see the names I knew from that great part of my life.My email is ciccone1@atlanticbb.net if you care to yack about old times...take 'er easy,Lenny
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you're back!
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not quite... but i'm getting there.
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we'll take it...
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eugene ?
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Looking for a guy from St. Lucia that did tour on crutches...!
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Hello everyone! I am seeking information on 710 Ashbury. Does anyone know the tenants of this legendary house? If so, please send me a PM. Thanks!
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Dennis McNally talked to the people who owned the house, in about 1980; I think it's in the Grateful Dead Reader. I think your best path is the property tax records, though, as the place may well have changed hands since then.
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Lived in ft. Collins co. Then Santa Cruz ca. From Philly. Great friend. Saw tons of show together. Blue moon new year. Tons of Bay Area shows. Love to connect. Mary Salardino Msalardino@gmail.com
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I think the Charmin I know fits your description she was black from Trinidad and she was mixed she had blue eyes right? I can probably give you he rcontact info, but contact me first.
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In search of a man who would be in his early/ mid/ late sixties now. Went be the name winddancer. I believe from Santa Cruz or west coast. Met my mom at the dead show at Portland speedway June 30,1979 grateful dead show. I believe his birth first name is John or Jonathan. he toured with the dead in the late 70's.Any leads are gratefully accepted. Thanks, Sarah
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Hello.I am sure some of you might have heard of the unidentified decedent "Jason Doe". He supposedly attended the Grateful Dead summer 1995 concerts on june 24 and june 25 of. He died in a car crash june 26 and has never been identified. So please take a moment to look at the information by googling "Jason doe" and if you knew a Caroline O. or a Caroline T. or a Jason maybe you have some information that might help bring him home. Since I am uncertain of the site policies about links in comments I hope you will be willing to do a Google search yourself if you know someone or something relevant. I apologize if this has already been discussed on the forums but I feel like someone here might be able to help. Thank you!
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Looking for an old tour friend from Northern California named Bolletta.She used to make beautiful bags adorned with beads and lived in Boulder Creek.Any help would be greatly appreciated! Leo (~);)
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Hi Sarah,I have just been contacted by one of my old friends from Dead Tour.You have been talking with him,Larry,about finding your father,Windancer.I could only find this posting from you as he did not give me your current connection?Hopefully you will get this?My husband and I are very close to your father.His real name is Jonathan Timmer,yes,AKA,Windancer,when we were on tour.Your father was a unique/essentric individual.He has had some rough times in his life....which is why we have stayed friends,and been close,to support and help him.I guess you know now he has found out you are looking for him.....and it has affected him deeply.He definitely would like to connect...You are the only blood relative he knows of,as he was adopted out as a small child,born to traveling gypsies,who could not raise him.He went through Vietnam,which affected him greatly.He joined the Dead family as a sense of community,and we were all a tight knit community....if you have not received the info for him yet please respond and we can connect you with him,My name is Lesly,hope we connect?
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Hi! I'm a student and dead fan looking for people wanting to share their stories and experiences at Dead concerts. I'm writing a paper about the effect their music had on people and people's experiences at their concerts. If anyone is willing to share some of their concert stories please reply to this post or feel free to shoot me an email at mjravenna@gmail.com or ravennamj@sdstudents.us Any help is appreciated. Thanks!!!
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Probably a long shot in the dark :) I'm looking for a guy named Antonio from California who went to shows in the late 80s early 90s. We lost touch and I have always wondered what happened to you. We hung out a few times in Northern and Southern Cal, last few times in San Diego. If you ever find this drop me a line. I think you might remember me as bouncy. :D
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Hey Joe,It's Suki from Berkeley. Remember 2001 NYE in Oakland? Still around? I loved your turtle. Wish to make amends Suki
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I'm trying to get in touch with a beautiful young Deadhead girl, named Cheleese, with whom I did not have nearly enough time to talk. We met at the Dollar General Store in Pearcy, Arkansas.
If anyone knows her by golly, let her know that I could not hear her e-mail contact info that she shouted out to me, as it was too loud in the store! I NEED A MIRACLE!
Kindly, uncleJames

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Yeah you.....
You stole my brand new Dead shirt I just bought and pulled through my belt loop while I was in line at the gate at Alpine Valley in '85.
I felt a tug, turned around and you were long gone.
So not cool!

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Bosco Boots - That is a lot of baggage to be carrying around for 34 years! Hope your shirt turns up!

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i was walking to the lodge singing "It Must Have Been The Roses" April 10 or 11, 2015. When i got to
the line "all i know is i could not leave her there", you said, "that's my favorite line in that song and a good voice".
i wish i would have got your info but, i was late to start a rim to rim hike. darn it. you, pretty lady, cross my
mind of regrets from time to time. perhaps it wasn't meant to be or, perhaps you are my destiny!!

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Hi there, I'm interested in doing a project about the long, lost 2/6/79 Tulsa show. Anybody out there attend that one? I'd love to chat with you and get your story. Shoot me a DM if this is you. Thanks so much!

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Hello everyone,
Currently I am working on my MA degree thesis project which concerns with the counterculture(s) of the 60s and 70s. If possible, I would like to interview and ask couple questions to some DeadHeads who were young back in 60s and 70s and been to Dead shows. If you are interested please reach me out! And if you prefer, you can remain as anonymous. You can reach me at sebnemaltunkaya@hotmail.com
All the best!

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I am looking for the poster artist Michael Everett. Does anyone have contact information? Thanks!

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Any women with the same birthday as me and Jerry ? August 1

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Cardboard sign reads: BOYFRIEND WANTED

49 never married, optimistic, honest, and lighthearted female. No kids, std-free, pretty cute, I like to cook and eat. Never hard drugs, pescatarian, and animal lover. Currently interested in hiking wilderness areas or long trails, camping, biking, anything outdoors. No drainbows or drama. Also just looking for one great companion, I don’t believe in romance hooey. All good things in all good time. https://imgur.com/a/zy4jSqV

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Anyone know Ripper? Or his whereabouts? I'm an old friend from the early 90's who's looking to reconnect w/ Ripper. I grew up in NY and moved to San Francisco in 1991 with another Deadhead buddy. I met Ripper one morning laying in the bed of his Toyota pickup in the campgrounds at the Eugene shows. I was stumbling around one early morning after the show and started jawing w/ him. He asked me if I wanted a Guinness? It was about 8am. That was the beginning a wild fucking day and a long friendship. We partied the rest of that weekend and probably met back up when we returned to the Bay Area. From there he said, Let's drive to the shows in Vegas. Hell yeah! It was most likely early 1994. When that West Coast run ended he said, Let's drive cross country and go to the big Woodstock 94' concert. Hell yeah! We we're on a roll and having a blast. And by this time we had a big crew of people that we're hanging w/ us and seeing shows. So we drove up through Idaho and tripped out w/ some wild people, crossed the country and saw GD shows at The Palace in Michigan. Finally got to NY. We posted up on my folks porch and partied for days. My Mom loved Ripper. We gave her a pot plant that was in car. Somehow we managed to keep it alive and watered it while driving cross country. We did all the Giants Stadium shows. Then Ripper went up to Mass to meet his buddies, I stayed in NY and we both went to Woodstock 94' with our friends. Then we met back up in the Bay area later in early Fall. And we hung out all through the mid 90's. I would run into Ripper in San Rafael. Sitting outside New George's. And I once put an add on Craigslist asking if anyone knew where Ripper was? Someone replied that he went back to Mass. and he's involved in a big Grateful Dead fan club or something. Well, I've been out in CA for 30 years and I'm moving back to NY. It's been a good run out here but I need to get back to my roots. And I need to find Ripper so I can pick up where we left off. Or maybe a mellower version of that. Maybe you know him from the Bay Area? Maybe you know him from the Mass. Deadhead scene. Tell him Frankie from NY is looking for him. He'll know. He can contact me at frankcoviello1999@yahoo.com Ciao...

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Hi all, I am latin percussionist and Lifelong Deadhead. I am planning to launch an equity crowdfund for a Latin Jazz Grateful Dead Tribute project called "The Latin Dead" but first reaching out to the Dead community in case there was some interested investors looking to take the ride and help us thrive! I have a detailed business plan I can provide for any serious inquiries. Please feel free to message me directly here or via email at... latindeadmusic@gmail.com

Thanks, Brenden

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I’m looking for this brother Isaac from the Bronx and Johnathon and Moonflower from NY. Last I saw Isaac he was with me in Oakland 11-11-94 JGB after I went to Santa Cruz and he went to Eugene.. I miss my brother need to find him..

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I'm looking for My old bro "Hippie Jay" King. Last spoke with him on the phone in 11/2005. He was always one of my best friends and I would love to connect with him. Please find a way to make contact Jay. I still think about you all the time Bro. I even still have some old cassettes of you and I jamming with Sean.

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Im looking for Sandy Ritt, my dear friend from Isla Vista days, who introduced me to "Against the Stage, front and center" at Winterland, and Berkeley Keystone, while frying. Lost track, late 1980s, married a guy named Robert Mateo, used to live in Berkeley

She was the one and I let her slip away......

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This is a little different than what's usually put here, but I'm looking for bluegrass musicians or people knowledgeable about bluegrass who would be willing to do a quick interview via zoom. I'm a student working on a project talking specifically about the banjo but also about bluegrass music generally, and as part of it I'm conducting a bunch of interviews with musicians, instrument builders, professors, and music lovers. The end product is gonna be a multimedia thing that will include some video stuff, some written stuff, some photography stuff, and maybe some other stuff who knows. If you'd be interested in doing an interview, know someone who would be interested, or have anything else you wanna tell/ask me about please feel free to PM me or comment on this

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Hi all,
Hoping to find my buddy an original 1980 Alaska poster for a wedding gift. It will be undoubtedly cherished by its new owner, and I'm willing to pay a pretty penny. Thanks!

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Hi friends! Can’t wait for dead and co tour 2022!